Valentine’s Day is celebrated on the fourteenth day of February and is synonymous with love, roses, and chocolates. But have you ever considered where the very day came from? An interesting journey into centuries, Valentine’s Day’s history mixes religious traditions with ancient rites and modern customs.
1. Ancient Roman Origin of Lupercalia
The Lupercalia festivities that lead up to the first stage of Valentine’s Day originated sometime in mid-February. This was a pagan observance in honour of Romulus and Remus, founders of Rome, and Faunus, god of agriculture. Spells for fertility, matchmaking, and lottery-like pairing of men and women were part of the celebrations. These were potential pretexts for love, even if the Lupercalia were more about fertility rights.
2 THE IMPACT OF CHRISTIANITY: ST. VALENTINE
Christianity made Lupercalia surrender to Valentine’s Day. In a strange effort to Christianise the ancient pagan festival, the Catholic Church took away the Lupercalia and dedicated a day in its place in honour of St. Valentine. However, this creates an ambiguous identity for St.
Valentine. Several martyrs bore the name Valentine, but the most popular tradition is the one that speaks of a priest who defied the prohibition of Emperor Claudius II against young soldiers taking wives. St. Valentine became a patron of all lovers by secretly performing marriages.
There is another legend that states St. Valentine, while in prison, wrote to a little girl; this was the first ‘valentine’ letter he penned, and he signed it “From your Valentine.” The phrase still lives as it comes up with a tone of love and affection.
3 Some centuries ago, especially in the Middle Ages, things started to become a bit more romantic on Valentine’s Day. Poets, including Geoffrey Chaucer, popularized the association of St. Valentine with love, attaching the notion of courtly affection to the day. With his description of birds choosing their mates on Valentine’s Day in the poem “Parliament of Fowls”, Chaucer cemented the idea that February 14 is the day of romance.
Therefore, it was during this period that handwritten notes and gifts of devotion set aside for lovers began to flourish. These early Valentine cards were often accompanied by ribbons, lace, and romantic verses.
4 The Victorian Age: The Commercialism of Love
The 19th century was when Valentine’s Day became a commercialised event—after a revolution in industry and a boom of mass-produced greeting cards. It was Esther A. Howland, also called by some “Mother of the American Valentine,” who started producing elaborately ornamental valentines with lace trims in the 1840s and sold them all over the place to people.
Chocolates, flowers, and greeting cards became widespread. Valentine’s Day is one of the innumerable holidays about it. Cupid, hearts, flowers, and so on would be the legacies most identified with the Britons, along with other such things.
5 Contemporary Festivities: An International Trend
Valentine’s Day has virtually become an international feast. Unlike in the past when national and cultural boundaries would have held sway, every nation has added its own twists and variations of observances of Valentine’s Day. However, the most basic concept of love and affection has remained unaffected. One example of how love is celebrated internationally is the following:
- In Japan, on 14th February, women give chocolates to men, while on White Day (14th March), men reciprocate.
- South Korea offers its own love-studded events during the year.
- In Finland, the holiday known as ‘Ystävänpäivä,’ or Friends’ Day, emphasises friendship.
In the modern celebration of Valentine’s Day, ancient customs blend with religious influences and economic components. It is also a day to appreciate friends, family, and self along with love interests.
As I said before
Valentine’s Day history shows the eternal strength of love and bonding of humans. From its Roman history to evolving into a world-famous celebration today, this special day has become a universal method to express love for one another. Valentine’s Day is indeed a reminder to cherish the people who bring happiness into our lives—whether by gifting, confessing, or simply spending time with loved ones.